If you’re looking to level up your results in dating, business, and life… then this might be the most important thing you ever read.
Let me explain.
The problem with the traditional approach to dating is that it’s too one-dimensional.
There’s one thing I learned when I began my journey as a dating coach…
You can give a guy all the “tactics” and “lines” in the world…
But unless he has a rock-solid inner foundation built first, they won’t work.
For example, let me ask you a question.
- If you’re too afraid to even approach a girl in the first place, do you think having the perfect “pick up line” or “technique” is going to fix that?
- If you’re too afraid to start a business, ask for a raise, or negotiate better terms in a deal — do you think having the right “tips and tricks” are going to help you?
- And if you’re too lazy and unmotivated to work out, eat healthy, and live a healthy lifestyle — do you think having the perfect “workout routines” and “diet hacks” are going to help you?
You already know the answer. Of course not.
Even the best strategies and techniques will do nothing for you if you don’t have your inner game down. You’ll just be spinning your wheels in the sand.
You see, the things that hold us back in dating are the same things that hold us back in business and life.
And after working with countless students, I discovered there are four main obstacles that hold people back:
- Lacking Inner Game
Success in dating, business, and life starts with one thing: BELIEVING you can do it, and having deep-rooted inner confidence and self-belief.
Your self-belief is the foundation that everything else is built on. It’s what fuels you. Without it, you won’t get anywhere — and all the dating and business strategies in the world won’t help you
When people try to skip this process of developing a successful, winning mindset, they end up getting nowhere.
Because success in any area of your life first starts with your mindset. Your INNER game.
- Lacking Structure
Once you’ve overcome your limiting beliefs and bolstered your self-confidence, you need to have a structured game plan for how you’ll go about achieving your goals. Without an organized structure to guide you, you’re just wasting time and spinning your wheels in the sand.
You need crystal-clear goals. You need a strategy for achieving them. You need a specific schedule. You need to plan your day. And you need to have a clear vision of the daily actions you need to take to achieve your goals.
- Lacking Accountability
Once you’ve got your mindset down and you’ve got a crystal-clear game plan to follow, the next step is taking massive action.
All the visualization, preparation, and planning in the world doesn’t help if you don’t actually take action.
But if you want to see truly massive results in your life, it’s not enough to just take action. You need to take MASSIVE action.
And the interesting thing about us humans is that it’s very hard for us to take action on something when we aren’t held accountable to it.
My students tell me that this is one of the biggest benefits they receive from hiring me as a coach. For years, they “know” what they have to do, but for whatever reason, they procrastinate… They don’t take action.
But the second they start working with me, they get a FIRE under their ass that motivates them to take MASSIVE ACTION unlike they’ve ever taken before.
Want to know why?
Because I hold them accountable.
If I decide to take you on as a student, you better be ready… because I’m going to make you take more action than you’ve ever taken, and I’m going to hold you accountable to it.
This is something that you can’t get by reading a book. The fact my students invest in my coaching means they’re financially COMMITTED to making a change. Combined with the fact that I keep them accountable with multiple check-ins per week creates something amazing in my students’ lives…
They find themselves more motivated to take action than ever before.
- Lacking Balance
This is what a lot of otherwise “successful” people struggle with.
Maybe you’re achieved a decent amount of financial success in your life… but you’re working around the clock.
And as a result, your sex life suffers. You have no time for meeting, attracting, and dating incredible women.
Your schedule is a mess. You have very little time for dating, and maybe you don’t even have time to go to the gym and take care of your body.
In this case, what you’re lacking isn’t more action, what you’re lacking is balance.
And the way to find balance is through a strategic approach that allows you to have the best of both worlds – having an amazing dating life without sacrificing your business.
In other words, working and dating smarter, instead of harder.
As an entrepreneur and digital nomad myself, I had to figure out the solution to running a full-time business while having an amazing dating life at the same time.
In fact, unlike other guys who invest far more time (while getting far worse results at the same time), I figured out that with the right approach and strategy, I could meet, attract, and date amazing women… with a time investment as little as one hour a day.
This allowed me to have an incredible dating life while working on my business full-time.
And with the proper strategic approach, this is something you can do too.